Wedding Lore
Tossing the bouquet

Tossing the bouquet is a tradition that stems from England. Women used to
try and rip pieces of the bride's dress and flowers in order to obtain some of
her good luck. To escape from the crowd the bride would toss her bouquet
to them and run away. Today the bouquet is tossed to single women with
the belief that whoever catches it will be the next to marry.

Giving away the bride

    The tradition of the father giving away his daughter has its roots in the
    days of arranged marriages. Daughters in those times were considered
    their father's property. It was the father's right to give his child to the
    groom, usually for a price. Today a father giving away his daughter is
    a symbolof his blessing of the marriage.

The wedding ring

The wedding ring has been worn on the third finger of the left hand
since Roman times. The Romans believed that the vein in that finger
runs directly to the heart. The wedding ring is a never-ending
circle, which symbolizes everlasting love.

The best man

In ancient times, men sometimes captured women to make them their
brides. A man would take along his strongest and most trusted friend to
help him fight resistance from the woman's family. This friend, therefore,
was considered the best man among his friends. In Anglo Saxon England,
the best man accompanied the groom up the aisle to help defend the bride.

Bride on groom's left

Because grooms often had to defend their brides in
Anglo Saxon England, the bride would stand to the
left of her groom so that his sword arm was free.

Something old...

Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue and a sixpence in your shoe.
    "Something old" represents the bride's link to her family and the past. Many brides
    choose to wear a piece of family jewelry or her mother or grandmother's wedding
    gown.
    "Something new" represents hope for good fortune and success in the future. The
    bride often chooses the wedding gown to represent the new item.
    "Something borrowed" usually comes from a happily married woman and is
    thought to lend some of her good fortune and joy to the new bride.
    "Something blue" is a symbol of love, fidelity, and purity of the bride.
    A sixpence in her shoe is to wish the bride wealth in her future life.

The tiered wedding cake

The origin of the tiered wedding cake also lies in
Anglo-Saxon times. Guests would bring small cakes
to the wedding and stack them on top of each
other. Later, a clever French baker created a cake
in the shape of the small cakes and covered it in
frosting, which is now known as the tiered cake.

Wedding bouquet

Flowers are incorporated into the wedding ceremony as a
symbol of fertility. The first bouquets consisted of herbs, and
later, orange blossoms.

The bridal veil

The bridal veil has long been a symbol of youth, modesty, and virginity
and was used to ward off evil.

Bridesmaids

The bridal party is a tradition that has been established for many
centuries. For a long time the purpose of the bridal party was to fool
evil spirits. The bride's friends dressed similarly to her in order to
confuse any virulent presences that may be lurking about. Today
bridesmaids are still there to support the bride during the stressful
times during the wedding.


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